Life can throw some pretty tough challenges our way, and for DJ and sangoma Tumi Motsoeneng, better known as Gogo Skhotheni, and her estranged husband Monde Shange, that challenge has hit an unimaginable low. The couple is grieving the loss of their three-year-old son, Monde Junior, who passed away on September 2nd, 2024, at Busamed Modderfontein Private Hospital.
In a heartfelt statement shared with ZiMoja, Gogo Skhotheni confirmed the tragic news, expressing the family’s deep sorrow: “It is with profound sadness that the Motsoeneng and Shange families confirm the passing of Monde Jr Shange.” She went on to request privacy for their families during this incredibly painful time, asking for understanding and compassion as they navigate through their grief.
Monde Junior’s journey was anything but easy. Gogo Skhotheni has been open about her son’s health struggles over the years. On his second birthday, she shared a heart-wrenching message that shed light on their reality: “Monde Jr, you’ve been at that hospital bed ever since. You know all the nurses, doctors, and cleaners; we are now planning your second birthday. Are you still there?”
From the very beginning, Monde Jr faced significant health challenges. Born prematurely after a complicated pregnancy, he struggled to breathe and was rushed to the ICU just two hours after his birth. Gogo Skhotheni recounted, “Monde Jr was born without the tube that transports food to the stomach, had many surgeries, and used a machine to eat.” Her pain and resilience were palpable as she reflected on her journey, saying, “God is testing the wrong woman.”
Through all of this, Gogo Skhotheni’s love for her son never wavered. She shared her unwavering faith, stating, “My faith is not shaken even by a snake; they know I would cross the ocean for them.” This strength is a testament to the bond she shared with Monde Jr, a bond that will forever remain in her heart.
The couple’s relationship has also faced its fair share of turbulence, with on-and-off dynamics and allegations of abuse adding to their struggles. Gogo Skhotheni has been candid about the challenges they’ve faced, saying, “A lot has happened. My son has been sick for a long time, but I have given my life to God and will still heal.”
As we reflect on this heartbreaking news, it’s essential to remember the strength and resilience that Gogo Skhotheni has shown throughout her journey. The loss of a child is a pain that no parent should ever have to endure, and our hearts go out to her and Monde Shange during this difficult time.
Let’s honor Monde Junior’s memory by sending love and support to Gogo Skhotheni and her family as they navigate through this unimaginable loss. In moments like these, compassion and understanding are more crucial than ever.
